10 Ways To Get A Guy To Fall In Love With You, According To Reddit

We scoured Reddit to figure out what makes guys fall in love and here's what we found...

Alana Garcia
Created by Alana Garcia
On Apr 15, 2019
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1

Being vulnerable.

VikingFjorden says: Even though it's a longshot, I guess one of the primary things I fall for is vulnerability. Not as in crying all the time or such, but showing that you are willing to take a small leap of faith for me in terms of showing me who you are and what you think/feel/etc...

2

Having good looks and a good personality.

damnbanana says: I think attractiveness is a combination of personality and looks, you really need both to be attractive. If your attitude stinks and you're dumb as a box of rocks, you could look like a greek goddess, but I'd still not find you attractive.

3

Being well read.

Trash_Golem says: Demonstrate knowledge or advanced proficiency in her area of interest. Just enthusiastically talk about something that you have a lot of experience in or are really good at that most people aren't. This is so rare for women that I spend time around, even the ones that have thriving professional lives. Acting cutesy/playing dumb is incredibly unattractive.

4

Making eye contact and smiling.

unknown says: Look me right in the eyes, wait until eye contact, and then give a big genuine smile. Makes my heart flutter a little, no matter what.

5

Being genuine.

dont_let_me_comment says: Honestly, just be yourself. A guy is either going to like you or not. There's not a magic switch that makes someone like a person they otherwise wouldn't. And if there were and it weren't a natural part of your personality, it'd become apparent pretty quickly. Same thing works in the other direction of course.

6

Comfortable to be around.

vassiliy says: Make me feel comfortable being myself. I deliberately slightly 'adjust' myself in many social situations in order to more easily have a good time with people - it's not something that bothers me, as I like being around different sorts of people who like different things, and it's refreshing to just act slightly differently sometimes. But I met this girl recently who instantly made me feel like I could just drop all of that and be my unfiltered self. We only talked for a couple of hours, but I can't get her out of my head.

7

Give him food.

what_user_name says: Cook a nice meal. Shows you care, and seriously, if you can cook, I want you in my life forever.

8

Wear perfume.

unknown says: Wear berry scented perfume. Or any type of good smelling perfume. I love a good smelling girl!

9

Be chill.

KeegoTheWise says: Just be chill. You don't have to try to attract men. Just be calm, be comfortable. IMO, nothing is sexier than a girl who gives the same amount of f*cks as I do.

10

Have open body posture.

Atomichawk says: Just be nice and be open in your words and body posture when you talk to me about stuff that you think we might share in common. The worst thing is when I think a girl is closed off to me because it throws me off and I can't be myself and try to figure you out.

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