What Type Of Attention Is Best For You?
What Type Of Attention Is Best For You?
What type of attention do you need in your life right now? Should you be focusing on your family, your friends, your success, or your love life?
What type of attention do you need in your life right now? Should you be focusing on your family, your friends, your success, or your love life?
How much time do you spend with your immediate family Monday-Friday?
Are you mostly an introvert or an extrovert?
Are you in the industry of your dream job?
Do you have a significant other?
Choose one, love or fortune?
How many different friends contact you per day?
Which picture speaks to you?
Who is the first person you call when you need to talk about something important to you?
Are you happy at your job?
Which was the last thing to make you smile?
Romantic Attention
Romantic Attention
It's time to focus on love!
No matter how old you are, love is something important. Whether it's a simple as finally telling your crush that you like them, or proposing to the person of your dreams - it's about time!
You are at a stage in life where you need someone to give you affection. It will keep you leveled. Look for someone that balances you and makes you feel the subtle flutter of butterflies when they smile at you!
Remember - it's not about the fancy dinners or the nice clothes, it's about who they are on the inside. If you haven't had luck with love before... it's not because that special someone isn't out there, it's because YOU aren't looking in the right places.
So keep look somewhere else, look where you wouldn't expect love, look closer, and good luck!
Friendly Attention
Friendly Attention
Call up your best friends! And if you don't have any, this is the perfect time to find some!
You are at the point in your life where a good friend to talk to can mean the world. This can be a great way to get some stress off your chest, talk about your life goals, and even discuss the ends and outs of your love life.
Try meeting new people, even an introvert can meet some great friends at a book store. If you're an extrovert, call up your friends and recharge with a party! You have covered most of the bases when it comes to love and success, so trust yourself and spend some quality time with your friends.
You'd be amazed how much you can find out about yourself when around people that are like you! You need a shoulder to lean on, so find a friend who can stand tall beside you.
Family Attention
Family Attention
Put away the work, turn up the music, and call Uncle Whosawhatsit and tell him it's time for family game night!
You need some time with your family! It isn't easy to find people that you were given to the day you were born, your parents likely know you very well! And blood is not the only thing that denotes family, if they raised you, take care of you, and love you - THAT'S your family!
You've put more than enough effort into your friends and loved life for now, and you won't be missing out on anything big by spending a Saturday with Grandma!
So pull out a cheesy board game, pop some popcorn, and have some quality time with your family - you'll thank me later!
Aspirational Attention
Aspirational Attention
Sometimes, when you spend a lot of time with your friends and family you begin to lose your hold on your dreams and aspirations.
This doesn't mean that you have to return to the 9-5 that you hated or buckle down for school or anything! This means that you need to spend some time on you! Take a day to figure out what you want to focus on and what your dreams are- pinpoint a goal to reach. If you have a goal in mind it will be much easier to work towards it.
Want a tip? Aim a step higher! When it comes to dreaming, if you aim for the stars you're bound to hit higher than when aiming for the sky. It doesn't matter if you miss, you just need to try!
Now is the time to make your mark, don't miss the chance!