Why is this kid acting so BAD?
Why is this kid acting so BAD?
Why does a child misbehave?
THEY ARE DISCOURAGED!
In 10 questions you can unlock the mystery behind any child's misbehavior!
AT THE END, CLICK THE LINK TO SEE HOW TO FIX IT FOR GOOD!
Why does a child misbehave?
THEY ARE DISCOURAGED!
In 10 questions you can unlock the mystery behind any child's misbehavior!
AT THE END, CLICK THE LINK TO SEE HOW TO FIX IT FOR GOOD!
Which of the following misbehaviors does the child display most often?
How do YOU feel when the child misbehaves?
How else do YOU feel when they misbehave?
When the child is misbehaving, what are you THINKING?
What is your initial REACTION when he/she misbehaves?
What does the child tend to do after you react?
How does the child react when OTHER adult's confront his/her misbehavior?
If you could guess, what do you think the child hopes to gain by misbehaving? (motivations)
To the best of your knowledge, how is the child's home-life? (Their relationship with their parents or guardians or issues they face outside of school.)
How is his/her relationship with other children?
Excessive Attention
Excessive Attention
Coded Message: I need CONNECTION! Notice me! Involve me usefully.
Belief behind the behavior: I only matter and belong when I am getting lots of attention or special service, and you notice me.
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Power and Control
Power and Control
Coded Message: I need to feel CAPABLE! Let me help! Give me choices.
Belief Behind the behavior: I only matter and belong when I am in control, or proving no one can boss me.
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Revenge
Revenge
Coded Message: I need to feel like I COUNT! I’m hurting! Validate my feelings.
Belief Behind the Behavior: I don't think I matter nor belong, so I'll hurt others as I fee hurt. I can't be liked or loved.
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Inadequacy
Inadequacy
Coded Message: I need COURAGE! Don’t give up on me. Show me in smaller steps, or a different way to do it.
Belief Behind the behavior: I don't matter nor belong because I am not perfect. I'll convince others not to expect anything of me. I am helpless and incapable. There's no use trying because I won't do it right.
**HELP THEM! - See matching tabs below