11 Signs He's A Player
11 Signs He's A Player
Have you ever started dating someone, then thought....is he a player? Lots of people have that thought, but what are the signs. Is he a player?
Have you ever started dating someone, then thought....is he a player? Lots of people have that thought, but what are the signs. Is he a player?
Have you ever wondered if the guy you're dating is a player?
Maybe he's flirting with other girls...or maybe he's being a little distant...
Whatever the reason you think he may be a player, it's always good to go over the signs:
1. He's always on his phone, texting and smiling - He seems more interested in his phone that he is interested in you. What's worse is he smiles every time he looks at his phone, you're getting played.
2. He avoids talking about the future - Any talk about a long term relationship or commitment is off limits. He's more interested in that girl over there in the tight skirt.
3. He shows no interest in meeting your friends - If he doesn't want to meet your support system, then he probably doesn't see a future. A genuine guy cares about things you also care about.
4. He never wants to hang out before 11pm - He always makes sketchy excuses for why he can never hang out at a reasonable hour. For whatever reason, his schedule only opens up late at night.
5. He always text, never calls - If he can’t even be bothered to pick up the phone, think about what this says about him.
A real man will take the time to call you because he wants to hear the sound of your voice.
6. He says he's working late but his social media tells a different story - When he tells you he can’t hang out, and yet his Snapchat story clearly shows him hanging out at the bar, you know he’s lying.
7. He follows a bunch of models on Instagram - You know he’s slipping into those DMs, low-key. If he’s following a bunch of hot girls on Instagram and Twitter, he’s definitely suspect.
8. He refuses to show you any affection in public - Any guy who refuses to acknowledge your relationship anywhere other than in private is a creeper. He’s not your boyfriend if he won’t even hold your hand on the street.
9. He never takes you on dates - His idea of a date is watching a movie on Netflix and having sex.
He has never asked you to go out to a real restaurant, and if you suggest it, he offers a lame line like, “I just like to be home with you."
10. He won't drop the G-Word - When you're out with your man, does he introduce you as his girlfriend? If he's not calling you his girlfriend, you're not his girlfriend.
11. He has a bad reputation - When you hear bad things about a guy you’re dating, believe them.
If people who know him well are telling you he's bad news, it’s probably because he is.
So, do you think your boyfriend is a player?
So, do you think your boyfriend is a player?