Are You Ready To Move In Together?
Are You Ready To Move In Together?
Living together is a pretty big commitment, are you ready to take the plunge?
Living together is a pretty big commitment, are you ready to take the plunge?
How much time do you spend together?
How often do you talk about the future?
How well do you get on with his family?
Are you both happy with how you contribute financially?
How long have you been in a committed relationship?
Have you talked about who will do what around the house?
How often do you argue?
How do you feel when you think about moving in together?
Have you both been faithful in your relationship?
What's your main motivation for moving in together?
You should probably hold off for a while
You should probably hold off for a while
We're not saying that you two shouldn't move in together, but we are saying that now probably isn't the right time.
We all know that it's a whirlwind falling in love and when it feels right there's no going back, but if your relationship hasn't been committed for more than a few months, the likelihood is that you won't know each other enough to make such a massive step.
Living with somebody and just being in a relationship with somebody are two very different things and if you are arguing a lot it is probably best to relax, take a deep breath and stay how you are.
Moving in together is not the fairytale that everyone expects and it won't fix any difficulties you might have, so address the problems you have, embrace the good bits and enjoy your time together - there's no need to rush things.
You need to have a conversation with your partner
You need to have a conversation with your partner
Although you love your partner and are committed, the thought of making that next step is something you're not quite sure you want right now...
The idea of making such a big committment fills you with dread even though you're perfectly happy.
You spend most of your time together and moving in should be on the cards but you can't help but think - if it's not broke, don't fix it.
The thing is, it's perfectly normal to be wary. Moving in together can irrevocably change things so it's completely rational to not want to do it unless you're 100 percent sure.
If you think that you might be making a mistake by rushing into something you're not ready for but don't want to break up with each other, then all you need to do is talk to him!
It might not be the best conversation of your relationship but it's guaranteed to make you stronger in the long run.
Congrats! You're more than ready
Congrats! You're more than ready
Congratulations! You are ready to pack your bags and make big the move.
You've got one of those solid relationships which is hard to find.
You have the same ideas about where you want your future to be and most importantly you want to share it together.
The money matters sorted, you know that you'll be able to share everything without driving each other mad.
You've met the parents and you already feel like part of the family.
You spend all of your time together already, most of your stuff is at his - well you're practically already living together anyway.
You both know that the reality is that you'll end up together and this is just a natural progression in getting to that place.
So if you want to move in, we say go for it!