What Opposite Personality Do You Attract?

The Protector is generous, accommodating, and loyal. They are dedicated to the task of taking care of their loved ones, and take their family responsibilities seriously. They look for ways to provide and to assist, and are attentive to the details of the people around them.

Protectors appreciate history and tradition, and often want to create a relationship that reflects traditional ideals.

They are motivated to help, and may put their partner’s needs ahead of their own. They typically have a clear idea of what a partner "should" do, but are not likely to be outwardly demanding when it comes to their own needs. They prize harmony and will often withdraw rather than engage in conflict.

The counselor is supportive and guided by a sense of integrity. Their interest in human development applies to their mates as well, and they are encouraging of their partner's dreams, aspirations, and achievements

They want to maintain harmony in their relationships and are highly motivated to resolve conflicts. They tend to be creative problem-solvers and look for the emotional core of an issue to create a meeting of the minds. Although they desire cooperation, they are not willing to go along with an idea that does not feel authentic to them. When it comes to their core values and ethics, they are unwilling to compromise.

Counselors want a high degree of intimacy and emotional engagement, and are happiest when they feel they are sharing their innermost thoughts and feelings with their mates.

The Champion is warm, encouraging, and emotionally engaged. They connect with others by sharing their feelings and experiences. They are expressive with their mates and want their mates to share openly with them.

They place great importance on personal development; they encourage their mates to pursue their dreams and want the same encouragement back. They are accepting of their partners as individuals and are unlikely to pressure their partners into being or doing anything in particular. On the rare occasion that they object to a mate's behavior, it's likely to be because their values have been violated.

Although they are quite sensitive, Champions can be guarded when it comes to their deepest feelings. They dislike conflict and are likely to withdraw rather than engage in a difficult discussion. They are flexible and supportive, and would rather find a way to connect than butt heads. They are creative problem-solvers, and can often come up with original ways to compromise.

The Visionary is inventive, enthusiastic, and spontaneous. They are often exciting partners, full of ideas for new things to explore together.

They prize their ability to understand others and communicate effectively, and have an ongoing interest in improving themselves and their relationships. They want to know how their partners' minds work, and are creative in coming up with solutions to interpersonal problems.

They like to encourage their mates to pursue their ambitions. However, they may be competitive or even argumentative; they enjoy a good debate for its own sake. They typically need a partner who is emotionally resilient and doesn't take offence at their intellectual challenges.

The Dynamo is fun-loving and flirty. They tend to keep things exciting. They are often pursuing adventure and like a playmate who will come along for the ride.

They tend to have little patience for serious discussions or emotional exploration, preferring to keep things fun and action-packed. They tend to be attentive to their partners’ physical needs, but may neglect the deeper emotional connections. Serious discussions about feelings rarely hold much appeal for the thrillseeking.

They are enthusiastic and reasonable problem-solvers. However, their orientation toward quick thinking may lead them to try to apply a solution before they fully understand the issues involved in a conflict, especially when complex and difficult emotions are involved.