Oprah’s Top Tips for Surviving Your Next Family Gathering
With suggestions from Oprah's very own site, here are surefire strategies to deal with certain family members during your next gathering.
Give Up Hope
How often does your family have big get-togethers?
At least a few times a year
Usually once a year
Never
Set Secure Boundaries
Have you ever thought to leave a family gathering early?
No, it would cause drama
Yes, I've thought about it...
I've done it before and I'll keep doing it
Lose Control
Do you have a family member who occasionally says something harsh without realizing how hurtful it is?
No
Yes
Ha! I wish it was just one family member!
Become a Participant Observer
Do you typically enjoy people watching?
Not really
Sometimes... If I'm really bored
Of course! Who doesn't?
Debrief
Will you be using any of these strategies for your next family get-together?
Probably not
Yes, I want to give it a try
Honestly I already use most of these!
